Tooth Of The Day

Relationship

Relationship

 

Relationship

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Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.

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“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term,
why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
― Nicholas Sparks

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“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last -are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship.

You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before.

Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is…

suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”

― Gillian Anderson

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“It’s no good pretending that any relationship has a future if your record collections disagree violently

or if your favorite films wouldn’t even speak to each other if they met at a party.”
― Nick Hornby

 

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The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting,not in hoping, even.
Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was,
nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.

Happy Weekdays Everyone!

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I love you guys!

I love you guys!

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Mother Is Heaven

My Mom

 

Mother is HEAVEN
Subsistence pal.  True-hearted
WOMAN… Full of LIFE!

My Mom

Today is my mom’s birthday.  She was already gone but I see and talk to  her in my dreams, whenever I seek guidance or some advise. And most often her advises worked on me.
For instance, one of them, like 2 years ago, I noticed a little dark spot on my upper right cheek and it was getting darker and darker.   I applied different bleaching products that was prescribed to me by my dermatologist, but none of which ever help to fade away the dark spot.  And then one night I dreamed that I was with my mom and she told me the medication that I should used instead. Believe it or not, the result was amazing.  It worked!

It really feels good to know that she’s still around whenever I need a mother touch.  Yes, I know I am already a mother but it just feels so joyful to have my mother with me even only through my dreams.

A Blessed Birthday
You’ll always be missed and loved
I love you Mamang.

The Sistine Chapel In 3D

Amary Av Inside The Sistine Chapel

In Today’s Cafe Siesta we will go to Rome :)  Yes guys to Sistine Chapel but in 3D…

And this is a great substitute for being there in person!!!

Check it out…

I am sure you will all be delighted to see this World’s Largest Gigapixel Picture :)

It gives us new meaning to the word- INCREDIBLE.

Once you get in, you can maneuver the image in any direction with your mouse.

Be patient and the image will clarify when downloaded.

Click the picture and have fun with our tour!

The Sistine Chapel is a large and renowned chapel of the Apostolic Palace, the official residence of the Pope in the Vatican City. Wikipedia

Okay, let’s all enjoy this and imagine to have your avatar in there too…

And Amary Av got there first already, yay!  hehehe :)

Amary Av Inside The Sistine Chapel

Anyways  once you got inside and started to have your excitement in playing with your mouse…

Have a break to grab your favorite tea or coffee and drink with me :)

Cheers!

Cheers!

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I want more donut please?

Enjoy your weekend!

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I love you guys!

In The Still Of The Night

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Today’s Cafe Siesta is to wake up your memories and experience some random flashbacks… by simply closing your eyes :)

This was another mail that I received from a friend of mine…   A long one but WELL worth it…. I hope you all enjoy as much as I did.  

“In The Still Of The Night” — YOU’LL LOVE IT!!

and he said,

“I hate to admit it but I can remember all of these as I’m sure you will also. I remember these things…but I do it with very fond memories! When life was soooo much easier and slow. ”  

“Sometimes you will never know the true value of a MOMENT until it becomes a memory”

Although, I wasn’t born in this era… I find this song very awesome :)

In the Still of the Night – Fred Parris and The Satins

I remember that I loved to play with my walking dolls that were almost as tall as I was…  I had plates, cups and saucers made of papers that I created myself.
I enjoyed running around with my siblings…  They would bring me with them to a river bank where it was not allowed for children to play.  One day they sneaked out and brought me with them, I was only 5 years old back then and when my father found us there, Yay!  He scolded the big ones but he spared me… hehehe… Because he believed I was innocent :)
I watched Tom and Jerry, Sesame Street after school.  Favorite TV shows and series were Wild Wild West, Different Strokes, Bob Hopes…  hmmmm  I feel happy already while thinking of those things…  I even could smell the donuts that my mom used to bake! Yummmy!

Here are some pictures I was able to scan from one of my old albums… :)

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Yes Guys! Memories to treasure back…  Like this kind of feeling…

Okay, you can begin now to spend some time to close your eyes and imagine how it was… :)   and then you can grab your favorite tea or coffee and savor it and enjoy it to the last drop :)

Cheers!

Cheers!

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I want more donut please?

Enjoy your weekend!

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I love you guys!

Sunday’s Sashay

christmas tree

anigif

Family Christmas Tree

This is our hand-made Christmas Tree :) My children and I made this one as early as 1 in the morning and we finished it at 5 in the morning, December 1, 2013… 10 hours before my flight coming back to the Kingdom :)

christmas tree

xmas tree

I won’t be able to be with my kids this Christmas but the memories and togetherness of making our Family Christmas Tree with them count the most.

The joy of making it and sharing thoughts on how to do it was already a Blissful Family Christmas.

 

Enjoy Your Sunday!

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Sunday’s Sashay

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anigif

A New Chapter Begins…

I feel great to tell everyone that I am now single.

Three years after my separation (2005), I have filed a marriage annulment (2008).

At long last this year 2013, last September 30, the court has decided and ordered that my marriage was null and void.

I am so happy as ever.

Happy because a new chapter begins in my life and I can move on forward.

Some of you may wonder and would ask me, “do you have any regrets at all?  Do you feel sad?

Well, honestly I do not have any regrets at all.  I have four beautiful, loving and responsible kids.  They are now all grown-ups and as a mother I am so fulfilled that I manage to put them all to school.  A year from now my first daughter, Maria Ahtalia will soon finish her Dentistry course and become a successful Dental Surgeon or Orthodontist.  My second daughter, Greta Garda will soon graduate in IT course 5 months from now to become a successful Digital Arts Designer. My third daughter, Tajah Jireh will soon to become a famous Fashion Designer, 3 years from now.  And my son, Picardo Leo, who is now in Secondary Schoool wanted to become the most wanted Architect one day.

I sounded so positive!  But that is most of mothers wished  for their children, aren’t we all?

Sad? Yes, there is a little sadness in a way that my marriage for 12 years did not work to  last.  But ending it, is the best thing to do and very smart move and I never and I won’t ever regret it.  I have the rest of my life now to look forward to and so I must make the most of it and feel thankful to my God in every moment as possible and ask His guidance and wisdom on how I take charge of my life and make a difference.

I believe that everytihnig happens for a reason.  I have a full life and I take these life challenges in a positive outlook. I move on with my life. I keep adjusting to needs and keeping all vital areas of my life in balance. I will continue to passionately pursue my mission or goal and I will never ever quit.

Life goes on and a new chapter begins. :)

 

Last week November 30… My kids and I went to go house hunting.  And we wished to get and own a Victorian kind of house in this beautiful Village and Resort Community to live by one day :)

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This is what a Victorian House look like.

Victorian house

  The house model isn’t ready for viewing yet so I just took this shot from one of their miniature displays…

Have a blessed Sunday Everyone! mmwahhh

TM5

Back to work! :)

Blue Heart

It’s Valentine’s Day
Color red is in and hot

Must everyone is ready
To have a sweetheart…

But in this VALENTINE
BLUE HEART is mine

Pulse rate is low
And no longer glow
Last drug failed to work on me
I fear it’s gonna be over
  • But then, you have stayed with me
  • Exposing little red left under
  • Truly you are a love giver
My Blue Heart now would soon recover

  • Happy Valentine’s Day,
My dear lover!

Happy Valentine's Sweetheart

To those with blue hearts this Valentine’s Day, cheer-up.  Things will soon patch-up… :)

Smiling Thoughts… On Valentne’s Day

Valetine's Day

Smiling Thoughts

When I met you I tasted life

Like a bud, I blossom, I breathe

Never again would I strife

For your love and care are so deep

Smiling thoughts of you conquered me

In the morn when I make my coffee,

When I eat, or laugh you’re with me,

And everywhere it’s you I see,

Along the road, those lovely trees,

At my work with my Apple breeze,

These words I’m writing now, I grace

Because you put smile on my face

You’re the best part of my everyday

And at night when I lay down to sleep

Still there you are all over me

Smiling thoughts of you lingers great!

Happy Valentine’s Day To  Everyone!

 

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Remembering My Mom On Her Birthday Today…

My mom with my youngest sister and little brother and me in my favorite orange mini-dress :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!

Every time I feel gloomy or hurt
I come to your side for comfort
You’re the mom I know since birth
The person who’d remain my mirth…

You’re the woman who knows me better
You’d understand my needs and want
That even though how knotty those were
You’d come to save me from any avalanche,
You wouldn’t mind this, nothing else matter
For you would want me safe from the errant

You’re always available for me
No matter how busy you may be
How you’d wish, all the answers you’d give
And all the things I seek in life, I’d receive

You’re not only a mom but a best friend
You’d honestly tell me all my mistakes
Because you wouldn’t stand me to rend
But you’d stay with me ’til my heart rakes

Yes there were times we would fight
Obviously with our generation gaps, it’s quite
But you’re cool you’d never doubt my insight
You’d let our conflict flow and bring them to a light

We wouldn’t always agree in any thing
And may have some misunderstanding
I would show you my tantrum, all of my whining,
My bad behavior and all of my misgiving
Yet you would never tolerate them by ignoring
Rather you’d choose to tame me with fair scolding
Sure, you’d get furious or peeve from my complaining
But still your heart would be quick in forgiving

You would always manage to calm down
You’d open your big heart and wide mind
And you’d accept the all of me to understand
To make me realize that my life had just begun
For you knew that everything you have done
Were for my wellness when time comes that you’re gone…

Everything that you have taught me
Ever since when I was little were all true
Today, that I am a Mom myself, I agree
For I have understood them all out through
Your love is unconditional and eternally…

My Mom Her Sweetness And Loveliness

And

When I feel happy and worry-free
As I always am
Still you are always around,
And here you would come…
We would share all the joys all year round
And no matter how far you are
Or near or just around,
You would make me feel your presence
You would reach out to me
You would make me feel the essence
Of your loving touch, so warm and profound
That I would hear my heart pound heavenly!

Oh, we would truly feel blessed and blissful
We would celebrate together and be fruitful…

And you would wish the whole world to know
That I’m your daughter, so proud to have me
And you are my mother, who’d support me grow
To be smart and strong…I really am so happy!
You never gave up on me, so I’d keep my glow,
Oh, my mother… My life I owe you… I thank thee…

I love you Mom…

Abeille Amore

My biological mother died from acute myocardial infarction 3 days before her birthday on January 27, 2002.  (1934-2002)
It hurts to talk about her because I miss her every day  and we usually celebrate our birthdays together because mine is February 2 :)
I chose her to be

My February Muse

So I will be talking a bit of her in My Muse  page every now and then so just stick around :) Merci!

Perfect Love

Truly Unconditional Love is the Perfect Love :)

Passionate Love And Poisoned Mind…

Passionate Love And Poisoned Mind

Revisited:

My Passionate Love Photo Collection
Love tended and nourished
Let it shined, let it flow
You are all I have cherished
Your love crawls, our feelings grow

My love starts yearning
Just let the fire go burning
Orange bodies are now glowing
The heat is over flowing

I thought of you, you thought of me
I breathe in through you intensely
Every part and inch of you, within me
And the all of you in my captivity

You moaned my name, I moaned yours
I would hear melodies in crystal clear
Your passion would be big or gross
You are all mine, you’re such a dear

Even miles away our spirits soar
We would find each other to roar
Thunder of Love, we both adore
and we cling on, even we cross the shore

We moved fast, we flew up high
We rolled over, we flipped and sighed
Yet our bodies stuck on together
Never wanted apart from each other.
My body shivers, not from cold
But by the heat of your body it gored
Like a river from your thrust I sweat dripped
You soaked in, swam swiftly and deep

I feel you, you are coming near
I hold on you, to you I was glued
Your movement, you kept… no tear
I wiggled with you, we both clawed
I see you clearly now
You’re face so tensed yet shining
Mine with you in tow
Both stricken with lightning
We got fully charged, we banged! 
Explosion all over yet we won
Like magic even afar we ganged
This romance we have would abound!

When you knew the power of this love?
Would you rather poison your mind, with… 

Would this love end my freedom?
Would it give me any harm?
Would I feel good with it or be damned?
When you knew your lost when it’s gone?
Would you still end the passion?

Love, have your fear ended,
Not your passion, Instead
Poison all of your doubt
so it won’t ever have a sprout
Only would stay then
Is your planted passion within…
You have stayed with me this far
Time already had been wasted
Between us would there be any mar
Still we have the True Joy injected
Within our romance full of agar 
Our passion for both remained congested.
But you have tamed me
With all of your sweetness!
You have owned me fully
With all of your greatness!
Love me with all of your passion
to have me…

Poison your mind to end this love
would kill me
For this passion we have
is so deadly
When this true love of ours
is gone, it’s not only I,

But both of us would die…

“What do you do all day?”

kitty

Revisited…

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A man came home from work and found his three children outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and 20 wrappers strewn all around the front yard.

The door of his wife’s car was open, and so the front door to the house and there was no sign of the dog. Proceeding into the entry, he found an even bigger mess. A lamp had been knocked over, and the throw rug was wadded against one wall.

In the front room the TV was loudly blaring a cartoon channel, and the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing.

In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door.

He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife.. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened.

He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door.

As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls.

As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pajamas, reading a novel.

She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went..

He looked at her bewildered and asked, ‘What happened here today?’

She again smiled and answered, ‘You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world I do all day?’

‘Yes,’ was his incredulous reply?

She answered, ‘Well, today I didn’t do it..‘ 

Ooooops! Keep it cool honey :)

How about a little kitty massage?

Is there a message in this post?  I would like to hear a word or two from you guys…

The Seasons Of Love With My Love

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Revisited

I treat my relationship with my partner like a garden. To progress towards my goal to have our relationship works successfully, it must be watered regularly. I take into account the seasons and all the unpredictable weather that would pass by every day. I know that there are new seeds that must be sown and some weeds that must be pulled. Likewise, a particular attention should be given to my partner to keep the magic of love alive. I must understand every season that would come and maintain the special needs of our love.

SPRING OF LOVE

Lovers date in spring

My partner and I fell in love on spring 
We cannot imagine together not loving or laughing

 That thought, we’ll be happy forever, what a feeling 
To me Falling in love is like spring

It is a magical moment 
Spring time, a lavender-scent

We kiss and all just click 
Everything seems perfect

Love seems full and eternally 
We work together effortlessly

We dance together in harmony 
Our good fortune in matrimony.

SUMMER OF LOVE

Throughout the summer of our love I realize
My partner is not as perfect I should not criticize

Not only is my love different from my thought,
Or he is flawed in some way herein I draught,

But he also, the man who makes mistakes
So I must work on our relationship as it takes
It is easier to give love and get the love I need
But now I do not always feel the love grass seed,

It is not my image of love that I thought should be
Because I discover that we are not always happy
The frustration and disappointment arise
Weeds must be uprooted at this time with guides.

My plants need extra watering under the hot sun
Then my fear of losing hope will soon be gone
’cause it’s not spring all the time, I must understand
It sure would take a hard work under a hot sun

I must realize that love is not always easy
So I don’t blame him, and I won’t gave up easily

Instead…
I need to feed his needs in the summer of love
I would ask him sweetly I too need his care and love.

AUTUMN OF LOVE

The result of my gardening during summer is heaven
I get to reap the fruits of my precious hard work given

Surely fall is here…yes I see it is coming
A glorious golden age- rich and truly fulfilling

I experience a more mature love with my partner
After working hard during those times in summer

I accept now and understand both of our shortcomings
And now… it is time for thanksgiving and sharing

Me and my love can now relax, have fun and get excited
We will both enjoy the great love we have just created.

 WINTER OF LOVE

Winter arrives when the weather changes
It is cold, all of nature itself recoils

And so does all of my painful feeling emerges
This month of winter really all, it annoys

It is when my lid comes aloof
Where I experience my own unresolved pain
Or my very own shadow fear proof
While I’m aware that he himself feel isn’t sane

But this is the time of rest and reflection
A moment needed for relationship restoration

Winter of love is the time for my cell growth
When I look more to myself in retrospect
And where I ask more of his love and respect
Which I understand these things we need both

It’s the time to let my love hibernate in his cave
While in the well I fall to manage my own wave

After this time of rejuvenation and healing
By the dark and freezing winter of love
Naturally I wait for the return of spring
Once again I am blessed with my love.

THE SEASON OF LOVE WITH MY LOVE

Spring 1997, Brooklyn, NYC

 Yes the feeling of hope, love, and abundance of possibilities, here
My basis of my inner healing and soul-searching soon would clear
For during my winter trip and adventure with the one I love
Again I’d be able to open my heart to feel with him the spring of love…

Abeille Amore

Life on the Train

Cheers!

 

Life is a journey…  and this is one sentimental on that journey that will linger on your mind.  Turn up your speakers to enjoy the music.

Please click below and send it to a friend or to your love ones…

LIFE ON THE TRAIN

And as always on our cafe siesta, grab your favorite cup of coffee as you hop in the train :)

Happy Week end To All!

I love you guys! mmmwahhh!

 

My dear all blogger friends, buddies and/or followers… You Are Loved!

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and grab this beautiful gift that me and my daughter Chlly had personally made for you.

You Are Loved!

I love you guys!

mmmwah, mmmwah…

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